Last week I introduced a series to come focusing on managing expectations, in particular expectations that those of us working to maximize our health and fitness after our 40th birthdays create for ourselves.
Given what we know about athletic performance, I’m thinking here of the old rule of thumb that your VO2max (think of VO2max as a measure of your body’s ability to utilize oxygen) declines by about 10% every decade post age 30, we probably should really be talking about expectations we create for ourselves post age thirty. (And this old study shows that the traditional 10% per decade decline doesn’t hold true for fit people actively exercising, even in their 7th decade).
And of course, the absolute crux of the timeline expectation game is damned simple – the time it’s going to take you to get from your starting point to your fitness, or weight, or metabolic health target depends on a host of factors unique to you, and critically where – relative to your targets – you’re starting from.
An Embarrassing Example from my Own Experience
When I first made the decision now just about three years ago to do what ever it might take to reclaim my health and fitness, I was a physical and metabolic disaster. In a full blow metabolic syndrome (I could have been a poster boy), I had just finished a round of treatment for renal cancer, had developed an idiopathic thrombocytopenia (low platelet count), weighed 412 pounds, and had so many aches and pains I could hardly walk through a store without the aid of a cart, and on the worst days, needed help tying my shoes.
A mentor helped me take the first steps in terms of revamping my diet and beginning at the most basic level in terms of rebuilding my fitness, and drilled into me the importance of setting attainable and rational short and intermediate term goals (incentives, and success, are huge helps). He also challenged me to set “reach for the stars”, seemingly at the time almost crazy goals as well; we can talk about structuring goals in detail sometime in detail – the psychology is fascinating – for sake of this story let’s just say I did set some seemingly unreachable long term goals (most of which I’ve now surpassed at the almost two year mark).
My mentor, wise friend that he is, hammered into me week after week that part of the process is indeed expecting life to get better (fitness to improve, weight to drop, etc), but he cautioned every single time that trying to pair my fitness and weight loss goals with a timeline I’d pulled out of thin air was a fool’s errand. He (correctly) harped on the principle that our expectations (especially when it comes to timelines) need to be tempered and tied to our reality unfolding day by day.
For Every Year a Couch Potato a Month in Recovery?
My mentor repetitively hounded me with another rule of thumb that he swears he learned from Dr. Phil Maffetone (I’ve yet to find it expressly stated on his site or any of his books), basically saying that after 40 (arguably 30 or 35 as well), for every year you’ve spent not exercising and overweight, you’ll spend at least a month of consistent fitness and healthy eating to reverse and overcome the damage and deconditioning done on your way back to a healthy baseline.
To be perfectly honest, I despise most rule of thumb discussions in health and fitness in general, as there’s simply too much variability in human physiology and experience to make them conform meaningfully to an individual’s reality.
That said, I’ve used this principle in advising clients and patients for years now – for every year a couch potato you’ll spend a month eating healthy and exercising consistently to restore a healthy baseline – and I’ll be damned if it doesn’t ring ring true more often than not. And note I’m talking about a healthy baseline here – becoming a masters cyclist or runner might take a little longer.
The Bottom Line: Play to Win the Long Game
In particular for those of us over 40, restoring optimal health and fitness after a period of…let’s say any time living with less than optimal nutrition and shunning exercise…is going to be a long game; accepting that reality will make the process immensely more rewarding, enjoyable, and sustainable.
Amazingly I still have people contact me for help in “easily dropping 50 pounds in three months”; most of the time we don’t mesh and work together – unrealistic expectations at the start are a huge hurdle to overcome. (Can somebody drop 50 pounds in three months? While possible, it’s sure as hell not probable, but it depends on where you’re starting from and how you want to get there; I dropped 50 pounds in four months myself at one point in my journey. )
By 40, most of us have accumulated at least a few dings and bruises, we don’t recover as quickly from aggressive workouts or injury, we often have very demanding work and family responsibilities, and we’ve often accumulated some damned harmful and deeply ingrained habits too. These things won’t prevent you from coming back, but they’ll impact your approach, and the timeline.
Have a long way to go to rebuild your health and fitness? It can be done; embrace the longer journey, savor the victories along the way, and build a lifestyle to take you into later years, remaining active, vital, and engaged.
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